When I was young, (and I know most of you girls dreamt about this too!) I have always had a clear picture of what my prince charming should be. And, as I began to date and meet a lot of boys, I noticed that my list of characteristics shortened (handsome, smells good, smart, goal-oriented, has a sense of humor?and so on..) and I wondered, could there be a shortage as well of guys who are ala "prince charming" these days?
I remember reading an article I about the ratio of 5 females being born as opposed to one male. Imagine a future where more girls clamor for one guy? No wonder the practice of polygamy is allowed in more countries nowadays. And what if that one guy turns out to be gay? Then, the chances of ending up with my dream guy (or your dream guy) are getting pretty slim. Yet, I continue to meet different guys with the hopes of finding my prince charming.
I remember reading an article I about the ratio of 5 females being born as opposed to one male. Imagine a future where more girls clamor for one guy? No wonder the practice of polygamy is allowed in more countries nowadays. And what if that one guy turns out to be gay? Then, the chances of ending up with my dream guy (or your dream guy) are getting pretty slim. Yet, I continue to meet different guys with the hopes of finding my prince charming.
For years and for so long, our society greatly influenced women's minds to think that the knight in shining armor in our lives are the ones who can ultimately make us happy and fulfilled. Oh I know this may be a bit exaggerated but we have actually put men on a pedestal glorifying them and having certain expectations about them as well. Don't get me wrong, I am not a man hater nor am I a hardcore activist for women's rights.
In fact, I love the men in my life. Who doesn't? Men are great friends, good listeners and companions when all your girlfriends seem to be busy with their own lives or their kids if they already have one. Sometimes when I think about it, one does not really need to be in a relationship with men to understand men. They have their own imperfections. They cry too and sometimes they are even more vain than us when it comes to the latest clothing or hairstyle. They also complain or whine on occasion about the most trivial stuff. Men are flawed human beings just like us women.
Admit it, most of us are still like Cinderella, only this time in a micro-mini skirt or a power suit waiting for the perfect guy, the prince charming who's going to sweep you off your feet. Sorry but today, the prince might be coming a little bit late because he might be stuck in traffic or just to lazy to get up. I guess what I am really trying to say is that women these days should enjoy being single. The modern Cinderella does not depend on men for her happiness, and she is open to meeting a lot of flawed princes? for that matter. A friend of mine and her officemates make it a point to meet at least one boy each month and admittedly, even if they haven't found their match, each one of them are having the time of their lives. Well, Shouldn't we? After all, we only get to live young once we might as well enjoy it while it lasts. I know I do. So what if it doesn't end up like a happy ending? At least you can put it in your long list of experiences that teaches you a thing or two about life. Someday, somewhere is a prince for each one of us or maybe not but it doesn't matter, what matters is how you lived your life. Don't worry just in case I find him, the world is going to know about it.
For Les...i know you'll find your prince...
By: Jenna Sto. Tomas
04/05/04
In fact, I love the men in my life. Who doesn't? Men are great friends, good listeners and companions when all your girlfriends seem to be busy with their own lives or their kids if they already have one. Sometimes when I think about it, one does not really need to be in a relationship with men to understand men. They have their own imperfections. They cry too and sometimes they are even more vain than us when it comes to the latest clothing or hairstyle. They also complain or whine on occasion about the most trivial stuff. Men are flawed human beings just like us women.
Admit it, most of us are still like Cinderella, only this time in a micro-mini skirt or a power suit waiting for the perfect guy, the prince charming who's going to sweep you off your feet. Sorry but today, the prince might be coming a little bit late because he might be stuck in traffic or just to lazy to get up. I guess what I am really trying to say is that women these days should enjoy being single. The modern Cinderella does not depend on men for her happiness, and she is open to meeting a lot of flawed princes? for that matter. A friend of mine and her officemates make it a point to meet at least one boy each month and admittedly, even if they haven't found their match, each one of them are having the time of their lives. Well, Shouldn't we? After all, we only get to live young once we might as well enjoy it while it lasts. I know I do. So what if it doesn't end up like a happy ending? At least you can put it in your long list of experiences that teaches you a thing or two about life. Someday, somewhere is a prince for each one of us or maybe not but it doesn't matter, what matters is how you lived your life. Don't worry just in case I find him, the world is going to know about it.
For Les...i know you'll find your prince...
By: Jenna Sto. Tomas
04/05/04
3 comments:
am i readin d princess diary o bridget jone's diary? he he he..kulit ko no..well this one's pretty good thou im more like the sleeping beauty here. weheheh =)
Compatibility over commitment is one of the keys to a happy and fulfilling relationship. We'll all have the chance to meet "the one", so always be on the lookout, but take your time and enjoy what life has to offer.
jenna tnx! i agree with what you write. naka-relate daw oh. :)
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